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I'm Yazmin
Oh hey! I'm Yazmin - I've been a celebrant for 15 years, and boy have I seen some things. From near-disasters involving candles and dresses, to guests dodging confetti cones like a battlefield. I’ve witnessed what works, what doesn’t, and what couples wish they’d left out.
So, if you’re planning your big day and want to keep it fun, relaxed, and free of cringe… here are 10 things I reckon you can happily skip
10 Things You Shouldn’t Have at Your Wedding (Trust Me, I’ve Seen It All!)
Weddings should be full of good vibes - not awkward, messy, or cringe moments. Here’s my top list of things to skip, straight from the wedding frontline.
01
Candles Along the Aisle
Pretty? Yes. Safe? Not always. I’ve seen dresses actually catch fire from those flickering flames. Skip the drama and go flameless or keep those candles far away from flowing fabric.
03
Phones Out During the Ceremony
Your walk down the aisle should be magical, not an ocean of the back of peoples phones. Encourage your guests to be present and enjoy the moment, not livestream it.
02
Confetti or Petals in Cones
Looks cute, right? But at the end of the day, you’re left with a sea of rubbish everywhere. Instead, ditch the cones and put confetti in baskets. Guests can grab a handful when it’s time to celebrate!
04
Drinks Before the Ceremony
A cheeky sip might feel right, but trust me, it can delay things and lead to photos of empty bottles lining the aisle. Keep the drinks for after you’re officially hitched!
05
Celebrant in the Middle the Whole Time
There’s no rule saying the celebrant has to be front and center the entire ceremony. They can chill to the side and only step in for the key moments - no need to block your view or hover during the kiss!
07
Silence - No One Should Be Silent!
This is a celebration, not a courtroom. Let laughter, cheers, and clapping fill the air. Moments of silence can be powerful, but don’t let your ceremony feel like a library.
06
A Long, Boring, Generic Ceremony Script
If you want snoozes and eye-rolls, go generic. But if you want people laughing, crying, and cheering? Make it personal, meaningful, and fun. Your ceremony is the heart of your day - let it shine!
08
Outdated Rituals That Don’t Mean Anything to You
Just because something’s traditional doesn’t mean it belongs in your ceremony. If a ritual doesn’t speak to your story or values, toss it out and make space for what truly matters.
09
Shoes or Dresses That Don’t Suit the Terrain
Those killer heels look amazing - until you’re sinking into the sand or tripping on uneven grass. Match your outfit to your location so you can dance, walk, and party without a hitch.
10
Chairs for Everyone (Larger Weddings)
Sure, comfort is key, but having everyone seated can kill the energy and spread people out like a quiet lecture. A good 50/50 split between standing and sitting keeps the vibe alive - plus, most people can stand for 30 minutes without complaint!
